Stay on track for the long haul
Studies show that about 72 percent of us are able to keep a resolution for at least a week, and 58 percent can hang in there for a full month. When it comes to permanent, long-term success, the statistics shrink to a measly 9 percent, according to the Statistic Brain Research Institute.
How to improve these odds and make a resolution that you’ll actually keep? Bricker offers the following tips:
Know what matters to you. Think about what will make the change worthwhile. Do you want to lose weight or quit smoking because you care about your own health or want to show your love for your family? “Dignify your resolutions with your values,” Bricker said.
Make a specific, achievable plan. Think small, as in losing five — not 10 — pounds in one month. When you reach that goal, make another small goal. “Thinking big is daunting,” he said. “Thinking small can work.”
Be kind to yourself. Give yourself a break and allow yourself to slip. “Surprisingly, giving yourself permission to mess up can make it easier to try again,” Bricker said.
Be mindful. Pay attention to the triggers that drive undesired behavior: What are you thinking and feeling before you eat the cookie, smoke the cigarette, grab the drink or compulsively check your Twitter feed while in bed? Then, be willing to just sit with those sensations rather than fight them. “If you can watch them for a few minutes, you may discover they are not so urgent. And sometimes they even go away,” he said.