Afterward, Hedley would get his Hope for Henry bucks. Hope for Henry is a program the proton therapy facility uses to help kids feel in charge of their treatment. They receive pretend money for tasks they achieve, such as daily treatment. Hedley’s advice for other kids treated at the facility is: “Save up until you have at least 20 Hope for Henry bucks so you can pick Legos or the other really cool toys.”
“The staff made it special, their personal touches really helped,” said Alaynna. “They didn’t treat him like a sick kid. They were patient and answered any questions Hedley had. They also had great recommendations on what to do in Seattle. He usually came out of treatments smiling and goofing off.”
“Sometimes patients have a hard time with treatment, but many, like Hedley, sail through,” said Ermoian. “It was great but not surprising to see how well Hedley fared during proton therapy.”
Hedley’s family was able to develop a routine that created a predictability that helped everyone. His middle sister Willa was old enough to travel, and missing her brother, she came to visit. They made the trip about more than just Hedley’s tumor. Before treatment, they played Go Fish together, and for the 15 minutes or so that Hedley received treatment, Willa colored. After Hedley's treatment, the family explored Seattle.
Hedley only experienced slight fatigue from treatment, which usually didn’t impact the rest of his day.
To get his mind off treatment, Hedley and his family explored all there is to see in Seattle during the summer. His favorite place to visit was Seattle Center with the Space Needle, fountain and playground. They also went glamping, kayaking and spent the Fourth of July with friends on Lake Sammamish.
“I think being able to make his life as normal as possible — during treatment and after — is important,” said Alaynna. “My advice to others is that having support from family and friends is such a big part of normalcy. I think the chance to have some sort of family life while we were in Seattle and including his sister was good.”
Hedley finished proton therapy towards the end of that summer and was able to start fourth grade as usual in the fall. In fact, he felt so good that he played soccer, flag football, baseball and basketball that year. He had one “bump in the road,” a brief period of nausea, headaches and profound tiredness called “somnolence syndrome,” but otherwise is doing well and getting routine follow ups at Stanford.
Recently, he had his one-year MRI and everything looked clear. He’ll see an endocrinologist about his growth because his hormones have been impacted in ways that were expected, and he’ll see an ophthalmologist to make sure his vision remains good.
Hedley just turned 10 and is going into 5th grade. His mom says this year he has to pick one sport! He’ll probably choose flag football — and maybe talk Alaynna into tae kwon do, as well.